14 Things to Practice Self-Love

Many talk about how to improve yourself, and that involves first and foremost being able to love yourself. Here are 14 things you should do to practice self-love. A more detailed explanation is found here: Why Self-Love Must Come First

1. You Cannot Give to Others what You do not Give to Yourself First
2. Surround Yourself with Positive People
3. Deal with your past hurts and fears (they are ruining your future)
4. Live in the Present
5. Develop a High sense of Integrity and Personal Beliefs
6. Be Mindful of Your Thoughts
7. Only focus on what YOU can Change
8. Take Care of Your Body, Mind, and Spirit
9. Live with an Attitude of Gratitude
10. Maximize Your Abilities and Minimize Your Weaknesses
11. Find Your Passion, and pursue it without any Reservations
12. Learn to Forgive Yourself
13. Less Is More: Simplify and Balance Your Life
14. Practice REALISTIC Optimism about the Future

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